Dating women in their 30 s
Rather they will be someone who will have realistic expectations of you and be accepting of who you are at this time of your life.They will want to grow old with you and have an age appropriate relationship with you.(yes I do fall into this category) Chances are good that these women have older kids who are well on their way and don’t really want your input on their children.They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.
One of my friends, who didn’t have a relationship until a few months before her 30th birthday, stayed in that first horrible relationship for years. Well at that age, she told me, she thought it was her only chance. Lots of people start dating later— and there’s no reason to put up with a crap relationship just because you’re not 21 anymore.
What I find most interesting at this point is the whole dating scene.
We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the kids.
Dating in your late 30s (especially if you are dating after divorce with kids like me) is sort of like sifting through a garbage can, hoping to find a huge diamond and a pair of Manolo Blahniks.
I don't mean to say that every available man is worthless when you're in your late 30s but rather that the game is hard, and guess what, ladies: it's still a game, even at our age.